For the Guy:
1. Before you let anyone else put anything in your butt, start experimenting with yourself. Trying putting a well-lubed finger up there first. Figure out what feels good, figure out what doesn't. Get use to the idea of something being up there. This will help you relax when the actual peggin begins. Nothing will make it harder to slide a dildo in your ass then clentching up from the hesitation that will come from not knowing what to expect.
2. Once you have adjusted to a finger, try a toy. Get a small butt plug or a small dildo. Again, experiment and see what feels good. Once you get used to this, try a medium sized toy.
3. Another thing to do is experiment with lubes. Figure out which one works best for you. Some lubes don't work as well with anal sex. You want to figure this out before you are in the middle of being pegged.
4. Talk to your partner. Make sure you are able to communicate with each other. You are going to have her sticking a dildo in your ass. You need to be able to say what feels good and what doesn't. You need to be able to clearly say what you are feeling and what you'd like. You don't want it to be a painful or unpleasant experience, and good communication will ensure that everything goes great!
Advice for the Woman:
1. Start slow. If you've been fucked in the ass, you know it feels much better to have the penis enter slowly and gently at first. This is true of strap-on sex. Let the anus accept the dildo before ramming it in.
2. Reapply lube often. Unfortunately, the ass doesn't make it's own lubricant. In fact, it seems to suck it away. So, keep things well lubed.
3. Communicate! If you need to adjust the harness or something is hitting you wrong while thrusting or whatever it is: be able to share this! Both people have to enjoy this experience to make it really amazing. So, be open and honest.
4. If possible, use your hands, mouth, or whatever to stimulate your parnter (unless asked not to). Nothing feels better than the combined stimulation of being pegged while having the penis stimulated as well.
5. Don't let feedback make you give up. If your partner says something hurts, don't rip off the harness and storm out of the room. Try to figure out what happened and avoid doing it again. Nothing will kill communication more than everytime your man says "ouch" leading to giving up. In fact, this will just make your man suffer through the pain to get to the pleasure. So, just be willing to adjust as necessary with out taking it as a criticism of your performance. Things are going to poke the wrong way once in a while. It just takes an adjustment to fix this, not giving up or feeling like you are doing something wrong.
6. Wear a strong perfume. The saying goes, "With strap-on sex, shit happens." And occasionally it may. Try to be prepared for this and make it a non-issue. Nothing will make the guy tense up like worryiny about this happening. So, let him know you expect it to happen occasionally and chances are that it'll be quite rare.
1. Before you let anyone else put anything in your butt, start experimenting with yourself. Trying putting a well-lubed finger up there first. Figure out what feels good, figure out what doesn't. Get use to the idea of something being up there. This will help you relax when the actual peggin begins. Nothing will make it harder to slide a dildo in your ass then clentching up from the hesitation that will come from not knowing what to expect.
2. Once you have adjusted to a finger, try a toy. Get a small butt plug or a small dildo. Again, experiment and see what feels good. Once you get used to this, try a medium sized toy.
3. Another thing to do is experiment with lubes. Figure out which one works best for you. Some lubes don't work as well with anal sex. You want to figure this out before you are in the middle of being pegged.
4. Talk to your partner. Make sure you are able to communicate with each other. You are going to have her sticking a dildo in your ass. You need to be able to say what feels good and what doesn't. You need to be able to clearly say what you are feeling and what you'd like. You don't want it to be a painful or unpleasant experience, and good communication will ensure that everything goes great!
Advice for the Woman:
1. Start slow. If you've been fucked in the ass, you know it feels much better to have the penis enter slowly and gently at first. This is true of strap-on sex. Let the anus accept the dildo before ramming it in.
2. Reapply lube often. Unfortunately, the ass doesn't make it's own lubricant. In fact, it seems to suck it away. So, keep things well lubed.
3. Communicate! If you need to adjust the harness or something is hitting you wrong while thrusting or whatever it is: be able to share this! Both people have to enjoy this experience to make it really amazing. So, be open and honest.
4. If possible, use your hands, mouth, or whatever to stimulate your parnter (unless asked not to). Nothing feels better than the combined stimulation of being pegged while having the penis stimulated as well.
5. Don't let feedback make you give up. If your partner says something hurts, don't rip off the harness and storm out of the room. Try to figure out what happened and avoid doing it again. Nothing will kill communication more than everytime your man says "ouch" leading to giving up. In fact, this will just make your man suffer through the pain to get to the pleasure. So, just be willing to adjust as necessary with out taking it as a criticism of your performance. Things are going to poke the wrong way once in a while. It just takes an adjustment to fix this, not giving up or feeling like you are doing something wrong.
6. Wear a strong perfume. The saying goes, "With strap-on sex, shit happens." And occasionally it may. Try to be prepared for this and make it a non-issue. Nothing will make the guy tense up like worryiny about this happening. So, let him know you expect it to happen occasionally and chances are that it'll be quite rare.
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For the Guy:
1. Before you let anyone else put anything in your butt, start experimenting with yourself. Trying putting a well-lubed finger up there first. Figure out what feels good, figure out what doesn't. Get use to the idea of something being up there. This will help you relax when the actual peggin begins. Nothing will make it harder to slide a dildo in your ass then clentching up from the hesitation that will come from not knowing what to expect.
2. Once you have adjusted to a finger, try a toy. Get a small butt plug or a small dildo. Again, experiment and see what feels good. Once you get used to this, try a medium sized toy.
3. Another thing to do is experiment with lubes. Figure out which one works best for you. Some lubes don't work as well with anal sex. You want to figure this out before you are in the middle of being pegged.
4. Talk to your partner. Make sure you are able to communicate with each other. You are going to have her sticking a dildo in your ass. You need to be able to say what feels good and what doesn't. You need to be able to clearly say what you are feeling and what you'd like. You don't want it to be a painful or unpleasant experience, and good communication will ensure that everything goes great!
Advice for the Woman:
1. Start slow. If you've been fucked in the ass, you know it feels much better to have the penis enter slowly and gently at first. This is true of strap-on sex. Let the anus accept the dildo before ramming it in.
2. Reapply lube often. Unfortunately, the ass doesn't make it's own lubricant. In fact, it seems to suck it away. So, keep things well lubed.
3. Communicate! If you need to adjust the harness or something is hitting you wrong while thrusting or whatever it is: be able to share this! Both people have to enjoy this experience to make it really amazing. So, be open and honest.
4. If possible, use your hands, mouth, or whatever to stimulate your parnter (unless asked not to). Nothing feels better than the combined stimulation of being pegged while having the penis stimulated as well.
5. Don't let feedback make you give up. If your partner says something hurts, don't rip off the harness and storm out of the room. Try to figure out what happened and avoid doing it again. Nothing will kill communication more than everytime your man says "ouch" leading to giving up. In fact, this will just make your man suffer through the pain to get to the pleasure. So, just be willing to adjust as necessary with out taking it as a criticism of your performance. Things are going to poke the wrong way once in a while. It just takes an adjustment to fix this, not giving up or feeling like you are doing something wrong.
6. Wear a strong perfume. The saying goes, "With strap-on sex, shit happens." And occasionally it may. Try to be prepared for this and make it a non-issue. Nothing will make the guy tense up like worryiny about this happening. So, let him know you expect it to happen occasionally and chances are that it'll be quite rare.
1. Before you let anyone else put anything in your butt, start experimenting with yourself. Trying putting a well-lubed finger up there first. Figure out what feels good, figure out what doesn't. Get use to the idea of something being up there. This will help you relax when the actual peggin begins. Nothing will make it harder to slide a dildo in your ass then clentching up from the hesitation that will come from not knowing what to expect.
2. Once you have adjusted to a finger, try a toy. Get a small butt plug or a small dildo. Again, experiment and see what feels good. Once you get used to this, try a medium sized toy.
3. Another thing to do is experiment with lubes. Figure out which one works best for you. Some lubes don't work as well with anal sex. You want to figure this out before you are in the middle of being pegged.
4. Talk to your partner. Make sure you are able to communicate with each other. You are going to have her sticking a dildo in your ass. You need to be able to say what feels good and what doesn't. You need to be able to clearly say what you are feeling and what you'd like. You don't want it to be a painful or unpleasant experience, and good communication will ensure that everything goes great!
Advice for the Woman:
1. Start slow. If you've been fucked in the ass, you know it feels much better to have the penis enter slowly and gently at first. This is true of strap-on sex. Let the anus accept the dildo before ramming it in.
2. Reapply lube often. Unfortunately, the ass doesn't make it's own lubricant. In fact, it seems to suck it away. So, keep things well lubed.
3. Communicate! If you need to adjust the harness or something is hitting you wrong while thrusting or whatever it is: be able to share this! Both people have to enjoy this experience to make it really amazing. So, be open and honest.
4. If possible, use your hands, mouth, or whatever to stimulate your parnter (unless asked not to). Nothing feels better than the combined stimulation of being pegged while having the penis stimulated as well.
5. Don't let feedback make you give up. If your partner says something hurts, don't rip off the harness and storm out of the room. Try to figure out what happened and avoid doing it again. Nothing will kill communication more than everytime your man says "ouch" leading to giving up. In fact, this will just make your man suffer through the pain to get to the pleasure. So, just be willing to adjust as necessary with out taking it as a criticism of your performance. Things are going to poke the wrong way once in a while. It just takes an adjustment to fix this, not giving up or feeling like you are doing something wrong.
6. Wear a strong perfume. The saying goes, "With strap-on sex, shit happens." And occasionally it may. Try to be prepared for this and make it a non-issue. Nothing will make the guy tense up like worryiny about this happening. So, let him know you expect it to happen occasionally and chances are that it'll be quite rare.
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